One of the things that all families should do from time to time is have a family field trip. While long vacations are lovely, they are expensive and few and far between. I think all families can find at least one day a year when everyone is available to do a day trip, taking advantage of local museums, theaters, concerts etc. that are often overlooked. Here are some ideas:

-- Look for something that appeals to everyone in some way. That doesn't mean it needs to be everyone's favorite activity.

-- Check your local paper. Many newspapers have a weekend section, datebook, or some sort of listing of events locally. Many are free and open to the public. Don't forget to check out your local Jewish paper as well, or contact your local Jewish Federation for ideas if you are looking for an outing with a Jewish content.

-- Expose your children to art and history from their country of origin or biological culture. But don't stop there - make sure that everyone in the family gets a well rounded education on all cultures. It helps to convey the message that you're doing this for everyone's benefit.

-- Take a camera. My parents took tons of pictures of me - the first child - and, well, let's just say not so many of my younger sister. Alas, I find myself falling into this mode of the first child gets the most pictures as well - but I'm determined to stop that. I've made myself a promise to try to take approximately equal pictures of everyone - and make an attempt to get a family picture taken every once in a while while we are out doing something exciting.

-- Don't just take pictures! I know too many parents - and granparents - who spend all their time with their loved ones looking through the lens of a camera or video recorder. Don't forget to just stare with your own eyes and savor the moment of your children exploring the Egyptian wing of a museum or taking your child to the shore for the first time.

-- Think about food. If you keep kosher, check out Shamash.org for local restuarants near where you are going. Otherwise pack a lunch.