So, no camera has been located as of yet. And I own both a digital camera (though, not really own...just supposedly in possession of) and a real camera (I happen to be one of those people who actually still likes real film). However I am encouraged by the fact that it is Memorial Day weekend coming up and my plan is to tear the house apart from top to bottom. (I really need to pay more attention to these websites.) And I will find that camera. One of them, at least.

Anyway. Part of the goal in getting the house together is in preparation for Sheva Brachot we are hosting next week. Friends of ours are getting married over the weekend, and it is a custom for the bride and groom to be hosted at celebratory meals for the next seven days. Traditionally, one invites at least enough people to make a minyan (10 men in Orthodox and some Conservative circles, 10 people in all others) and then however many above that the host is interested in inviting. The words Sheva Brachot mean seven blessings, and refer to a set of blessings said at the wedding itself and added to grace after meals at the conclusion of this meal.

I really love this custom - it's a more intimate celbration for those who have big weddings. It's more laid back - kids are often invited. I'm hoping the weather holds up so we can do it in our backyard (otherwise we will be squished like sardines in my house but that's another problem for another day).

In secular or non-Jewish circles, the bride and groom often leave in the middle of their own wedding usually departing for their honeymoon - something I've never quite understood. (At several points during my wedding, my father walked up to me and said, "I'm paying for this. Eat!" My wedding was wonderful - I got to see and celebrate with all my closest friends and family, and so many that I hadn't seen for quite some time. I could have never thought to leave early.) Also, the concept of Sheva Brachot for the week immediately following the wedding generally prevents immediate departure on any trip.

I actually think its a beautiful custom. Many brides and grooms - I'll go out on a limb and say mostly brides - are stressed out over all the wedding plans, family pressures etc. Your whole life is changing in one day. The Sheva Brachot is our way of saying that we aren't waving goodbye to you at the chapel, we are here for you, supporting you and celebrating with you.